For 27 long years, my name was synonymous with struggle. I am Anna, and I lived in a world shrouded by the dense fog of anxiety and depression. Every day was like wading through a swamp, with migraines and back pain that clung to me, pulling me back into bed, away from life and the people I loved. Despite countless medications, sessions with psychiatrists and therapists, and attempts at positive self-talk, relief seemed like a distant dream.
I watched my children grow through a haze of pain and guilt, feeling like a shadow in their lives rather than the mother I longed to be. My marriage, once a source of joy, was faltering under the weight of my health issues. I felt utterly disconnected from myself and my husband, trapped in a cycle of despair and physical agony.
Then, everything changed when I met Michelle who looked beyond my symptoms to the root of my suffering. Together, we embarked on a holistic journey that wove together lifestyle changes, meditation, and nutrition. It was like finding the missing pieces of a puzzle I had been trying to solve my whole adult life.
"I’ve accomplished more in the last two days than I have in the last two months… NOT an exaggeration! Miracles are all around us," I exclaimed after implementing the new strategies. My excitement was palpable, a stark contrast to the years of stagnation. Even my therapist was astonished, admitting she had never seen such rapid progress in a client.
Now, as I stand here free from the shackles of medication and chronic pain, I marvel at the transformation. The work I did with my coach in just a short time surpassed the combined efforts of 27 years of previous treatments. I am not just surviving; I am thriving, reconnected with my family and myself, living proof that change is possible, and miracles do happen when you find the right guidance and support.
At 51, I found myself at a painful crossroads. After years of playing the roles of an attentive wife and mother, my world was shattered when my husband declared his unhappiness and intention to separate. This confession came just as their youngest child left for college, leaving me to face a crumbling marriage and an uncertain future.
Growing up in a home marked by verbal abuse and emotional disconnect, I had mastered the art of wearing a facade. I had become adept at pleasing others, a skill that, while protective in my youth, had morphed into a barrier against genuine connection in my adult life.
Devastated by my husband’s betrayal, I knew survival wasn’t enough; I needed to thrive and redefine my life.
Around this same time, I met Michelle. I immediately signed up for her self-sabotage coaching and embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery.
Over 8 weeks of coaching, I learned to foster compassion for myself, acknowledge my role in my marriage's demise, and silence the harsh internal critic that had limited me for so long. It was about accepting my past and embracing my present, flaws and all.
Through the coachig process, I learned the power of self-love and the importance of setting boundaries. I realized that my lack of personal boundaries had made my husband feel responsible for my happiness, a burden too heavy for him to bear. This revelation was a turning point, not just for me, but for my entire family.
As I transformed, so did my life. I lost 25 pounds, 50% of my body fat, and blossomed into an entreprenuer. My newfound confidence and perspective even made my husband reconsider his departure, ultimately begging for me forgiveness.
My journey of self-discovery did more than just mend a broken marriage; it redefined my identity and unleashed my personal power, my Elanvital. My children now see me not just as their mother, but as a role model, embodying resilience and self-worth.
My story is a testament to the transformative power of self-awareness and the courage to embrace change, showing that even in the depths of despair, there is a path to renewal and strength.
At 67, I found myself facing a relentless barrage of challenges. As a retired nurse, I was no stranger to the harsh realities of health and aging, yet my personal trials seemed insurmountable. Diagnosed with a degenerative disease and abandoned by my husband for another woman when our children were young, my spirit and body bore deep scars.
My encounters with doctors left me disheartened; they predicted only a worsening condition. Alongside this grim prognosis, I struggled with a longstanding addiction to sugar and junk food, which compounded my health issues. I desperately wanted to lose 75 pounds, but I was trapped in a debilitating cycle: I'd start with good intentions, only to fall back into old habits within a week. I found myself constantly blaming external circumstances and other people for my deteriorating health, feeling utterly powerless against the progression of my disease.
Everything began to change when I embarked on a self-sabotage coaching journey. This wasn’t just about changing my diet or exercising more; it was a deep dive into the core beliefs that sabotaged my health. Through the coaching, I started to peel away the layers of blame and resignation that had defined me for so long. I began to understand the roots of my sabotaging behaviors—how my fears and past pains influenced my actions and health.
Gradually, my mindset shifted. I rediscovered my inner strength and resilience, qualities that had sustained me through decades of nursing but had been forgotten in my personal struggles. I was surprised to find that even at the age of 67, change was not just possible; it was happening. Each day brought small victories, building my confidence and renewing my hope.
Now, I believe in my capacity to heal both emotionally and physically. By addressing my subconscious beliefs and actively choosing to nurture my well-being, I am making significant strides in my health and wellness journey. My story is a testament to the enduring human spirit and the profound impact of changing one’s internal dialogue.
Since 2010, I have been dedicated to helping women transform their lives with nutrition and lifestyle coaching. However, I often found myself frustrated by the ‘repeat business’ from former clients who struggled to make lasting changes. Despite focusing on mindset as the foundation of my practice for the past eight years, something was still missing.
Through my journey, I discovered that true freedom lies in breaking free from self-sabotage. It is the key that unlocks the door to countless mindsets and a life filled with purpose and vitality.
Elanvital Coaching was birthed out of the deep desire to guide you on this transformative journey, helping you reclaim your Elanvital (Vital Force) and live a life driven by your true potential.
You are truly limitless and the time for change is now! I look forward to hearing from you.
Michelle Ward